Introduction

Life has a way of presenting us with challenges that we never saw coming—difficult moments where we question, “Why did this happen?” It’s in these painful times that we often seek answers, but they can be elusive. Sometimes, we may never understand the reasons behind our suffering this side of heaven. But I wonder if part of the reason we experience hardship is so that we can later comfort others who are going through similar trials.

The Apostle Paul seems to suggest as much in his letter to the Corinthians. In 2 Corinthians 1:3-4, he writes:

Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God.

Paul, in 2 Corinthians 1:3-4 (NIV)

Paul emphasizes that God comforts us in all our troubles—not just so we can feel better, but so that we can pass on that comfort to others who are suffering. It’s as though God is inviting us to take what we’ve learned through our own experiences of comfort and use it to help someone else in their time of need. This cycle of receiving comfort and then sharing it with others redeems our suffering, turning something painful into something that ultimately blesses others.

In my own life, I’ve endured painful seasons of loss and self-doubt. I struggled to understand why God would allow these bad things to happen to me. There’s a rabbit hole we could follow about the flaws with that type of thinking, but I won’t do that now since it’s beside the point for today’s post, and I’ve written other articles about that. Anyway, fast-forward many years, and now one of my adult children is struggling with loss and self-doubt. Of course, I feel so badly for her, but now I have a chance to share the comfort with her that I received along the way.

Comfort from God

There are many verses in the Bible that show God’s promises to provide comfort during times of distress. So many of these gave me beacons of hope during dark days. Here are some examples.

King David, who experienced much suffering, wrote Psalm 34:18, which says:

The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.

David, in Psalm 34:18 (NIV)

This is such a powerful reminder that God is near when we are hurting. He doesn’t leave us to suffer alone. His heart is drawn to those who are in pain, and He provides comfort to carry us through, either directly (via Bible verses, for example) or indirectly (by sending a friend to help us grapple with the pain).

Similarly, Isaiah 41:10 offers another word of encouragement from God:

So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.

Isaiah 41:10 (NIV)

In moments of suffering, God reassures us of His presence and His power to sustain us. He strengthens us when we feel weak, reminding us that we are not alone in our trials.

Another example from the Prophet Isaiah is famous for its inclusion in Handel’s Messiah. It hints at the coming of Jesus, the Messiah, who will leave heaven to come to earth and enable Himself to give us comfort by suffering all the things we will ever suffer, and by paying the ultimate price for all the sins we will ever commit.

Comfort, comfort my people, says your God. Speak tenderly to Jerusalem, and proclaim to her that her hard service has been completed, that her sin has been paid for, that she has received from the Lord’s hand double for all her sins.

Isaiah 40:1-2 (NIV)

The message is clear—God desires to bring comfort to us, His people, even during times of hardship and suffering. It reflects God’s compassionate nature and His desire for His people to experience comfort, restoration, and peace.

Passing on the Comfort

But the message from the verses in 2 Corinthians that I mentioned earlier reminds us that comfort is not just something we are meant to receive passively. It’s also something we are meant to share actively. When we have endured suffering and found solace in God, we are uniquely positioned to offer empathy and support to others who are hurting. We have walked that path, and our experiences allow us to understand, connect, and encourage those who are still struggling. This is the situation I’m in now with my daughter and her heart-breaking situation.

Paul gives us a simple yet profound directive in his letter to the church at Rome:

Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn.

Paul, in Romans 12:15 (NIV)

This verse calls us to step into the emotional space of others—celebrating their joys and sharing in their griefs. When we comfort others, we aren’t just giving them advice or trying to solve their problems. Often, the most powerful thing we can do is simply be present and offer the same compassion and understanding that we ourselves have received.

God’s Compassion and Mercy

Throughout Scripture, we also see God’s desire for us to care for one another. In Galatians 6:2, Paul writes:

Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way, you will fulfill the law of Christ.

Galatians 6:2 (NIV)

Here, Paul is referring to the law of love—the command to love one another as Christ has loved us (John 13:34). By sharing in each other’s suffering, by bearing each other’s burdens, we become a tangible expression of God’s love to those around us.

This idea of redeeming suffering through the act of comforting others is an example of God’s mercy and wisdom. Even though we may never fully understand why we go through certain hardships, we can find purpose in those moments by using what we’ve learned to comfort others. It doesn’t minimize the pain, but it does allow us to see our suffering through a different lens—one that points us toward compassion, connection, and hope.

Conclusion: Redeeming Our Pain

There are times in life when we’ll experience suffering that defies explanation. We may never know why certain things happen, and that’s okay—because we serve a God whose ways are higher than ours (Isaiah 55:8-9). But one thing we can be sure of is that God never wastes our pain. He comforts us so that we, in turn, can become vessels of His comfort to others.

If you’re in a season of suffering right now, I encourage you to lean on God for the comfort that only He can provide. And if you’ve come through a season of hardship, ask yourself how you can share the comfort you received with those who are still walking through their storm. In doing so, we not only find purpose in our pain but also bring glory to the God who is with us in every trial.

As 2 Corinthians 1:5 continues, Paul writes:

For just as we share abundantly in the sufferings of Christ, so also our comfort abounds through Christ.

2 Corinthians 1:5

The comfort we receive in Christ is not just for ourselves—it overflows so that we can share it with others. Let’s be people who redeem our suffering by offering that comfort to those in need.